Showing posts with label Lisa's Healing. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lisa's Healing. Show all posts

Monday, August 31, 2026

Week 31--My Favorite Dump Run

Monday, July 27th
We unexpectedly found ourselves kidless so we set out on a dinner date.  Rocco and Renna spent two nights with family friends at their campground.

Tuesday, July 28th
His mama sent a pic of him with his beloved giraffe in his new giraffe jams.

Wednesday, July 29th
I think this was his last bounce.  He'd rather be sitting on the floor with toys now.
It's so unbelievable, yet all so normal to us after twelve years.  Lisa's call determined that because of some slightly detectable new growth, it was time to start chemo again after a glorious year and a half break!  I just shook my head like, "Well....we know what to do.  Here we go......"   It's crazy how desensitized I've become to parts of the story AND how utterly sickening, sad, and devastating it all is.  All we know to do is keep walking forward, ever grateful for whatever time God gifts us.  Round #48- absolutely nutty!  Lisa's courage and resolve is unmatched.
And because we can hold two things at the same time AND because God is so gracious and kind, Lisa would also learn on this day that her grand baby due in December is.....a BOY!  


Thursday, July 30th
Lil hosted Girls' Night Out.  It was so very sweet and she is just so gifted at hosting.  Meg and Lil were so patient to listen to our stuff.  We all have each other's backs, and that is a gift.
The sweetest one-sock boy.

Friday, July 31st
A very foggy morning walk.
Fridays with Maymee.

After Bo got picked up, I made my way to Jack and Avery's brand new-to-them house.  It's perfect!
I did what I could to help unpack the kitchen.  Thankfully, there were quite a few hands working together to get the move done.

Saturday, Aug. 1st
I went back to Jack and Avery's to do some yard work.  Nice, hot, sweaty weeding and hedge-trimming.  So when Lisa said, Ame, do you want to go with me to the dump?',  I said, "Sure."  

We  bumped along in the truck, happy to be together chatting away in the AC.  It wasn't until we stopped at the Lake house to "load up" what was there that I was like, "Wait a second...the two Grammas were elected to do the dump run?"  

No offense, and she'd say it herself, but Lis was gonna be no help.  So I hauled and heaved and pushed the pile for the dump onto what was already in the truck, and we were off again.

Only when the man at the dump asked, "What do you have?" did we look back and realize what we (the two Grammas) were tasked to do.  Dude!!!  Actual furniture.  A weight bench.  Rolls of nasty carpet.  So Lisa coached me on the best way to shimmy and leverage and flip and eventually, the job was done.  I was a sight.  Hair in every direction, dripping sweat.  Hedge clipping stuck to my neck and shoulders.  But we had laughed through the entire event, determined to rise to the challenge.   We laughed all the way back to Vernon wishing Renna had been along to vlog it all, because WOW.   As we bumped along in the truck back to the house I thought, I'm going to remember this day with Lisa for the rest of my life.

...and that's how a dump run became a treasured gift.


Sunday, Aug. 2nd
On a bit of a whim, Rocco decided to attend a week of Word of Life's camp with Trevor.  He literally registered the day before and decided logistically it made the most sense to drive himself up and back.  Up until this, he'd only done up to 30 minute trips.  Three hours and 15 minutes had me nervous, but I knew he could do it.  I gassed him up, lectured him about safety, gave him the best halfway spot to stop, hugged him tight, and waved goodbye.  Then I got in my car and cried.  Just another super obvious signal that my "kids" are quickly becoming NOT kids, and I know it's all good and how it's supposed to be, but I don't always love it.
He made it!  So excited for him and his week ahead.



Wednesday, March 25, 2026

Week 12--Lots of Rehearsal

Monday,  Mar. 16th

No picture, but Lisa sent me this one of Renna at their old Bellevue house.  That swing got lots of use, as did Renna's "Passion sandals."

Tuesday, Mar. 17th

An impromptu 'hello' turned into almost an hour of playdoh, blocks, and chatting with Maddy.  Fills my heart.

I had rehearsal and Renna had hockey so a quick Moe's was the answer for Taco Tuesday.  It was on Trevor's spring break menu wish list anyway.


Wednesday, Mar. 18th
We were up and out early, spending the day trying to get a handle on Lisa's pain.  We feel like we're one step closer.

Isn't she the cutest?!?!?

As soon as I was home from NY, I had to run to the apartment to meet the gas guy to deal with a no-heat situation, Then rehearsal all evening.

Thursday, Mar. 19th
Filming for Ezra.
We asked Trevor what he wanted for his last meal home.



Friday, Mar. 20th
Fridays with Bo!


After waiting on laundry, Trevor finally hit the road around 5:30.  I followed him to fill his tank before one last goodbye.  Rocco jumped in with Trevor just to get 5 more minutes with him.  I love how close they are.

And then he was off!  The plan was to drive to Pennsylvania to spend a couple nights at a classmate's home before heading back to school.  It was such a sweet time to have him home.  It felt like we got some good family time in and some good one-on-one time, too.  And this goodbye wan't too hard, knowing he'd be back in just one week.

Saturday, Mar. 21st
Also part of Trevor's weekend plan was spending the day with Amanda!!!!  I'm so grateful they have each other!
I spent a good chunk of the day at rehearsal.
Then I snagged Harley for church.



Sunday, Mar. 22nd
This was a long day.  First finance office then home for a short window so I spent some time cleaning my bedroom and closet.  I dropped some donations at Savers on my way to a 2:30-9:30 rehearsal.  Renna had stayed through all the morning services and wanted to stay longer.  Pastor Mitch put her to work and made sure to tell me how helpful she was.  When I went to find her and say hi, I was struck by how poised and grown and mature she looked!
It's a big cast this year!  105 adults and 55 kids.
Rehearsal wrapped up at 8:45, making UConn fans very excited to be able to get home for the game.  The crew was at my house watching. (Rocco's throne!!)

Thursday, March 5, 2026

Week 6--Fridays with Maymee 2.0

Monday, Feb. 2nd

Only one picture.  I dropped a meal off to a friend.  Renna asked me to take a picture of the house so she could recognize which one it is.  While I was out, Lil texted asking if we wanted to meet them out for a burger.  Since Mondays are free for us, the last-minute invite worked out brilliantly!  It was so good to get some time with them and get some advice.


Tuesday, Feb. 3rd
I met up with Kate for coffee / tea.  So thankful for her.  We've been friends for 45 years!!!  And trust me when I say, our friendship has weathered some "stuff" through no fault of our own.  She's so kind, supportive, wise, funny.  Her boys are just older than C4, so I admire her as a mom just a step ahead.  We've done everything from Kindergarten through high school, prom, boyfriends, in each other's wedding, babies, toddler play dates, swapping recipes, job changes, parenting adult children, challenging seasons, rejoicing together in victories, and crying together through hard.

Baby Bo is getting so smily, talkative, and expressive.




Wednesday, Feb. 4th
Apparently I was on 3 video calls this day.  GREAT news that Lisa will continue her pause in chemo.  It's been nearly a year as everything has remained miraculously stable.



Thursday, Feb. 5th
Making Ezra's video.
Just Rocco and I for the evening so we squeezed in some final driving lessons and we tried Cane's for the first time.   Love him!
Tim sent this wedding photo of my grandparents (maternal) when they ran off and eloped on their way to Montana.  Can you even imagine a cowboy from Montana whisking his girlfriend 16 years his junior from her very proper New England parents and starting their forever by eloping?  I think it's incredibly romantic.  Unless it was one of my kids!  Haha!  It's a shame their love story didn't last longer.  He died just a few years later, leaving her with 3 kids under 3.  Milo + Anne

Friday, Feb. 6th
We're trying to find a routine with our video calls.
C4's timing was perfect to get to say hello.
Fridays with Maymee 2.0!  Kelly started back to work a couple days a week, so I get Baby Bo on Friday!



Baby Bo had his first DMV visit.  Uncle Rocky had his road test........and he passed with a perfect score!

Harlem's mom invited me to his 'student of the week' presentation, but I couldn't be in two places at once.  She sent me a picture and a video.  
Two dads and 4 TBQ-ers set out for a tournament in New Jersey.


Saturday, Feb. 7th
We woke up to more snow, so I went over to do the apartments and Rocco took care of the house.

Rocco and I went to Saturday night service.  C4 played the drums.

Sunday, Feb. 8th
I had rehearsal and then we congregated at O'Bonks.  Traditional Super Bowl viewing with the whole gang in their newly renovated space.  I love that the big kids still join in.  This year, anticipation was HIGH and hopeful for our Patriots.  








I had zero interest in the halftime show, so I opted to watch the livestream of Word of Life's alternate halftime show which Trevor had a hand in filming.  The school has some pro snowboarders come in doing a whole bunch of tricks and a quick Gospel message.
There's my boy.  In his element.